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Matt Runchey's avatar

I think that some approaches to a situation do not result in any win condition. Essentially, by framing it as "when do I need to stop listening to my enemy’s arguments", you enter into a labyrinth of contradictions and paradoxes that will never resolve by design. You can loop and spiral, and feel like you are making progress, but there is no stability in whatever truth you might come to - something always seems to loop you back around. Things seem like progress, but it's a Shephard tone - the same octave, not higher orders.

The only way out is to change the precept. One where people with different views are not enemies to assimilate or conquer. We could grow past our first-order categorization of a view as right/correct/good or wrong/incorrect/bad, and dive into the fabrics that make up the textiles of each belief. If we stop seeking to evaluate and change, space becomes open to hear subtle notes.

You can stop listening to your enemy’s points at any time, just stop treating them like your enemy. It’s not so much about the belief as it is about the person you are engaging with. Instead of saying “there are smart people on both sides of the issue”, it may be more helpful to say “there is always someone who you could learn from on both sides of an issue”. Maybe you can stop listening to someone when you feel there isn’t more you can learn from them at this time.

Generally though, I'm not listening to Flat Earth podcasts to decipher what foundational value sets or experiences tend to lead to those beliefs, I simply don't have time to pay attention to everything. For the things I do choose to attend to, though, I have found the energy much better spent in curiosity than in compelling others to adopt my views. (I further believe that this type of observational curiosity brings an individual closer to the truths of existence, and it doesn’t matter whether you conduct that work through the path of listening to flat earthers or listening to rationalists).

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There are two factions in conflict. An outsider comes in with superior knowledge, assuming common humanity will override cultural distance, only to realize that their categories of thought blinded them to local reality. Does the outsider gain a newfound humility and cease their judgements of how they thought things ought be?

(check out The Left Hand of Darkness by Ursula K. Le Guin)

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Joe James's avatar

I think one thing is less understood by younger people online (not specific to gen z/a, but just people who haven’t been online/thinking about issues for a long time) is that a lot of people are dismissive of arguments prima facie because they’ve heard them a million times.

I think that’s the main reason folks like BB get such a reaction, because lots of us have thought about these issues (admittedly not as deeply at times!) longer than he himself has been reading books period. He likes to assert that atheists think you can point out where an argument is wrong just by listening to it, which is kind of wrong…but also kind of right?

Like every argument falls into a species of arguments that all make the same or similar assumption, and a lot of popular apologetics that’s slightly higher brow than frank turek seems to be just more creative ways to formulate the same 5 species of arguments. So, sure, I can’t debunk it just by listening to it, but if you gave me 5-10 minutes, I probably could, not because I’m super smart, but because I’m familiar enough with the species of argument!

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